Ladies, when you're at the club and you see someone that catches your eye, you naturally want to talk to him. However, is this loud club truly the place that you want to get to know him better? Probably not. And, do you know why? Because what you find in the club, you leave in the club. That's rule #1 for all of you funseeking females out there.

Rule #2 is that if you find a guy that you think has potential - in a club - you can surely talk to him but you do not take him home. This is where the phone number comes in. Let me explain...

Okay, so you ended up on the dance floor at your favorite club; shaking your thing to the beat of your favorite sexy song when, all of a sudden, you locked eyes with the hottest guy in the room. He smiles. You cleverly smile back - and wink - just to up the ante. He starts dancing his way through the crowded floor until he is right in front of you. That's right honey, you caught his interest with that wink. Now he's curious.

So, you show him all of your hottest moves on the dance floor and, when the song is over, you lean into him and whisper in his ear, "Thanks, maybe we can do that again sometime." Then shoot him that shy but sinister smile, and walk away. 

Direct yourself towards the bar and don't look back. If he thinks he wants you, he'll be following closely behind you. When you get to the bar, walk to the nearest open seat and act as if you are trying to get the bartender's attention. You need a drink after that steamy meeting on the dance floor.

When he comes up to the bar to talk to you, and he most likely will, try your best to act as if it doesn't really matter. Remember: you're just trying to ge

t a drink. This brings us to Rule #3...

Guys enjoy a good challenge. Give him that challenge.

Say something clever and, please, refrain from acting like a drunken idiot. That will only make you look like a cheap peice of meat to him. So, instead of making a fool of yourself, try to act somewhat intelligent while still playing hard to get.

When he asks if you want to go somewhere after the club closes, and most guys will, tell him that you'd like to but that you have a long day tomorrow and that it probably wouldn't be a good idea.

Now, although you've disappointed him, you can still make his night. When you order your drink, ask the bartender for a pen. Neatly write your name and number down on a bev-nap or coaster. Give him that winning smile once more as you lean back towards him, just brushing your lips against his cheek as you whisper in his ear, "If you want to get to know a little more of me, you'll use this." Grab his hand and gently place your phone number in it. Take the drink that you ordered during your conversation and walk back over to your friends.

You can still flirt with him and smile at him from across the room but it is suggested that you do your best to focus the majority of your attention on your friends. Like I said before, men enjoy a good challenge and you definitely want to look like one. If you don't, he'll probably toss the number and move on to the next girl. Consider this, you can't catch a fish with just a worm. You have to have a hook or you'll never be able to snag him and reel him in. Make sure that you have the sharpest hook - it wouldn't hurt if it were a treble hook either. (Yeah, go look that up if you don't know what it is.)

Last but not least, I want to wish you the best of luck! By the following night, you should be hearing his voice on the other end of the telephone. Enjoy!